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Share Your Story

We want to say a huge THANK YOU for being willing to share the painful way pornography has personally impacted your life. One of the biggest barriers to helping educate on porn addiction, is the fact that this isn't a topic people are able to freely speak up about. Many who don't understand the truth about the damaging impact of pornography on the brain, or the statistics of it's destruction of relationships, shame those who "have a problem with it". Capacity for empathy is one of the areas of the brain deeply impacted by addiction. Our aim is to help the world be informed and be aware of the true impact of pornography, and help men truly understand the betrayal trauma they've caused, connecting to the pain that they have caused their partners with their addiction. Rewiring the brain to be able to feel empathy is an integral part of porn addiction recovery. By sharing your story, you are contributing to help save families, and help men end pornography addiction.

 

For additional support and content to help you in your recovery process, scroll down on this page to join our free facebook support group for couples.

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There will be 16 total questions with the first few being some formalities.

Please take your time in responding, and use the "next" button below to submit your answers.

Question 2 of 16

What is your name? (Confidential, internal use only)

Question 3 of 16

Please share your email address so we can send you a thank you!

Question 4 of 16

What is your facebook handle? (Confidential, internal use only to contact you if we have questions)

Question 5 of 16

Do you give permission for your answers to this form and any pictures submitted to be used in full (without disclosing any names) for the purpose of information and education to help men break porn addiction?

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Yes

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No

Question 6 of 16

When you were a little girl, what kind of expectations did you have for your future? ie: Did you want to be married? Did you expect to be married for life? What did you imagine your relationship would be like?

Question 7 of 16

Tell us the story of how you first met your partner. How old were you? How did you feel about him and your relationship?  

Question 8 of 16

If/when you married your partner, what promises were made at that time?

Question 9 of 16

When and how were you first made aware of your partner's pornography use, and how did you feel about it?

Question 10 of 16

Over time, what has happened in your relationship due to porn use? Has your partner struggled to stop? Have you been lied to? If possible, please share in as much detail as possible what this experience has been like for you.

Question 11 of 16

How has your partner's actions affected your mental health?

Question 12 of 16

What impact has your partner's porn use had on your self esteem/confidence?

Question 13 of 16

What impact has this had on your family?

Question 14 of 16

Are there any other important details you would like to include about your experience?

Question 15 of 16

Please share a picture of yourself. Ideally, it would be during a difficult, emotional time that you're feeling the effects of your partner's addiction, and expressing the pain that you're dealing with. If this is too uncomfortable, or feels too unnatural, you can submit a picture of yourself with simply a serious face. The idea is to communicate your humanity and connection to the pain of your story. *By submitting a picture, you are giving permission for your picture to be used for the purpose of informing and educating to help end porn addiction.

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Question 16 of 16

Lastly, please share one of your favorite family pictures. The idea here is to show the reality of the families that are impacted and destroyed by pornography. If this is too uncomfortable, or you do not have permission from your significant other or other family members to share, you can skip this part or simply block out the faces of those who you do not wish to be shown. *By submitting a picture, you are stating that all people in the photo are giving permission for their picture to be used for educational and informational purposes to help with the mission to end porn addiction.

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